15 Ways Of Keeping A Man Interested In You

Does the thought of growing old together excite you? Do you ever envision a beautiful relationship filled with lots of fun and laughter? Well, these are some of the desires of every woman in love.

We all get into relationships with the sole intention of remaining lovers forever. We always want it to work out. You want your man to yourself. His main focus should be you. This, however, does not always happen and most relationships wither or just die off. You are then left with regrets and heartbreaks. You wonder what you would have done to keep him interested in you for longer.

• If you want to keep the fire burning,
• Enjoy a beautiful and solid relationship,
• And live happily ever after,

Keep reading this article and you will soon be ready to keep him hooked to you for a long time to come.

Below are some 15 tips that will keep him interested in you:

1. Listen to him more and know his likes

Take your time and listen to you man talk about what he likes most. Let him tell you about his achievements. If he realizes that you listen to him, he will feel comfortable to talk about what drives him and he will be confident that in you he has a shoulder to always lean on. This will make him want to spend more time with you. You can win over his confidence by:

• Being less judgmental.
• Not criticizing everything he does. Even when you don’t like it, you can voice your opinion lovingly.
• Supporting his ideas, showing him that you love what he does and occasionally spending time with him during his work hours.
• Standing with him no matter how great the storm is.

2. Be confident

Men love confident women. Be comfortable with who you are and don’t try too hard to be someone else. Accept your flaws and flaunt your strong points. Your man is attracted to your best physical attributes so don’t stress over the beauty standards set by magazines.

Wear that nice and sexy dress when going on a date with him. Go slow on makeup. Don’t overdo anything. Make it simple after all men still prefer natural beauty. Always be feminine and maintain your youthfulness. Keep up with the new trends and always stay fresh.

Spruce your confidence by:

• Taking initiative in bed. Nothing arouses a man like a sexually innovative woman. They always want to lead, but an occasional surprise won’t spoil the fun. Spoil him with some mad love that will wow him.
• Take on a project and make sure you accomplish like the big girl you are. This will boost your confidence level and make you so dam attractive.
• Just respect yourself and stand for what you believe in.

 

3. Let your man know how important he is to you

If keeping a man interested in you is your desire, make him feel important. You can let him know you value him by listening to his struggles and achievements for the day. Go out of your way and prepare his favorite meal after a long day at work. Surprise him by buying gifts or stuff without him asking. Men love to know that they matter and the woman in their lives always thinks of them. Let him know that with him in your life, you feel secure. It’s a boost to his confidence and he will want to work hard to uphold that status. That way, he will be all yours.

Other ways of showing him how important he is to you is by:

• Winning over and loving his family and friends
• Cherish your moments together and be fully present when you go out on dates.
• Floss him to your friends, and don’t be too shy to show the public how much you love him. A selfie together or some fun moments with your guy on your profile will do the trick. Who doesn’t like some public display of attention?
• Cook his favorite meal and ensure he is well fed.

4. Boost his ego

Let your man know and feel that to you, he is the most attractive man in the world. Make him feel like the man. Your man needs to know that you find him attractive. How best can you do that? Make it a habit of complimenting him and telling him that he stands out. Show your appreciation when he does something new. This will make him know that in you he has a cheer leader and will attract him to you even more. We all love to be validated right? So go on, validate him some more.

• Tell him how good he technically is after fixing the car.
• Let him know how strong he is when he gets in a situation and when he uses his strength.
• Praise his cooking style when serves you a wonderful dinner.

 

5. Love yourself and don’t be too clingy

Nothing kills relationships real quick like insecurity. Know your limits and let your man have his space. It is okay to love him but don’t choke him with your constant need to be with him. Enjoy your life outside the relationship. Have that group of friends that you can always hang out with and have some quality time. Do things that make you happy and bring the best out of you. Men love independent women. Show him that you can have a life. That way he won’t feel strained and guilty of not spending time with you. You both need space to come back to the relationship refreshed.

You can avoid being clingy by:

• Allowing him go out with his boys more often.
• Living your life to the fullest. Spend some time alone to discover yourself. It makes you a better lover.
• Have your own money and make the guy proud of you. A financially secure woman is a plus to a real man. He will respect you for that.

 

6. Try out something new thing

After being together for long, it’s possible to fall into a rut. Doing the normal stuff can be boring and can make you drift apart. Get out of your comfort zone and experiment on new things. Let your man in your plans and make him understand that you need some freshness in the relationship. It will make him want to team up with you to make the relationship more exciting.

You can try out a new hobby together, different sex styles. Just do something that the two of you will enjoy and that will make your relationship more interesting.

 

7. Be kind to the people around you

Men are always keen on how you treat people around you. Be kind and value everyone. Your man will know that he has a well-mannered woman in his life and will appreciate you more. This will also help in keeping a man interested in you.

 

8. Always surprise

Contrary to common knowledge, men also love being pampered. Give your man that massage after a long day. Surprise him with gifts on his birthday and let him feel that he is always on your mind. Men love it when you go out of your way to make them happy. You can go a notch higher by:

• Making a reservation in a romantic restaurant without his knowledge. It doesn’t have to be on special occasions only. Make it a habit of doing it just to have some quality time with him.
• Don’t be afraid to surprise him with a new sex style. Take the initiative and spice your bedroom skills. It will make you super sexy for him.
• Just blow his imaginations by trying new things. Any man will love an innovative woman. Make him feel that you are that kind of super mama( always unpredictable)

 

9. Be smart and always look your best

Men are visual creatures. You have the ability to satisfy that fantasy. Always maintain your hygiene. Take time and pamper yourself. Have your nails done, your eyebrows fixed and put on the right clothes. Buy clothes that fit you perfectly. Show your best features and always be fresh. Avoid baggy clothes and grandma panties.

Be the kind of woman who can hold intelligent and meaningful conversation. Intrigue him with your knowledge of the current affairs and keep learning.

 

10. Be patient and supportive

Nothing will make your man happy and more interested in you than knowing that you support him. Be that one person he can count on even when the pressures of work and life are weighing him down. Let him know that in you he has a friend who can never turn her back on him. Support his vision, critique him lovingly and don’t be negative. Be the force that propels him to greater heights.

 

11. Don’t bring in the third party in your relationship

To make your relationship work and enjoyable, block your ears to rumors. They will choke and kill your relationship. Not everyone is happy when your relationship is thriving. They can fabricate lies about your man to make you hate him. The moment you let in these voices, that would be the beginning of a death spiral. Learn to trust your man and discuss issues that affect your relationship openly. It’s a sure way of keeping a man interested in you.

Show him that you trust him by:

• Opening up to him about the issues you heard from others about him,
• Listen to his version of things,
• And discuss to come to an amicable solution. Don’t let rumors dictate how you handle issues in your relationship.

12. Don’t be nagging

No man loves a nagging woman. If you nag him a lot, he will avoid you. Find ways of resolving your differences maturely. Approach issues objectively and don’t bring up past issues when new ones crop up. It sucks and makes it impossible to live with you.

 

13. Commit to him in the same way he does to you

Men are wired differently. Unlike women, a man can tell you he loves you but still not want to marry you. One thing for sure is that if a man wants to stay, he will stay. Showing him how desperate you are about him and are ready to do anything for him may even drive him further.

Study the man you are dating. Cherish your life outside the relationship and don’t let him feel that you can’t live without him. If you constantly show him that you are strong on your own, he will feel threatened and want to have you to himself. If he still doesn’t commit after that, it will hurt but at least you will know that you have no future with him. Just move on gracefully.

 

14. Be his confidant

Don’t talk ill about your man with your friends. It will make him feel vulnerable and he may never trust you. Be his best friend. Someone he can trust with his secrets and gossip with without fear. That will make him love you even more.

 

15. Find some alone time with your man

No matter how busy you are, create some time and spend quality time with him. During such moments, you can catch up on different issues about your relationship that you may have taken for granted. Talk to him and let him know how much he means to you.

Be creative with ideas and do things that will make you bond. You can catch up on lost times by:

• Going out on a romantic vacation.
• Trying out a new project that will ensure you spend some time together.
• Trying out some date ideas that will make you relax and share some laughter.

Love should never be a struggle. The moment you realize you are struggling with your relationship or that your man is drifting apart, take your time and ask yourself pertinent questions. Find out why he is no longer interested in you. If it is a failure on your part, you can always get back on track and work on bringing life into the relationship.

There is no sweeter feeling for any woman than knowing that her man is only interested in her. Work on your relationship and use the above tips inkeeping a man interested in youand keeping the fire burning.