FIND LOVE: Where Can I Find A Partner? – 42 Best Places

By nerds8679 On Sep 23, 2019

For some people, there’s nothing more important than the happiness that comes with finding love, or finding a partner to spend their days with. If that sounds like you, you may feel discouraged if you’re single. It can be lonely when you don’t have anyone to take to that movie, or share your good and bad days with. Don’t give up hope! In this guide, we’re going to talk about:

The best places you can find a date
The most likely places to find a long term partner
The easiest way to find love – right from your own couch

If you’re single and sick of it, keep reading. Here are the best places to find love, no matter your age.

1. Dating sites

In the intro to this guide, we promised we’d share the absolute easiest way to find love. As promised, here it is: online dating sites. There are hundreds, if not thousands of online dating sites on the web, and they’re all populated with people who also want to find partners. A recent study shows that online dating is the most popular way to meet people.

While some of the people on online dating sites may not be an exact match for you, we can promise you – there’s one out there who is. There’s a man or woman out there who’s posted a profile in the hopes of meeting someone just like you – a blue haired cat lover from Santa Fe.

The key to online dating is that you need to do it right. The sites where you “swipe” are great if you’re looking for a date for Friday. But if you’re looking for a partner, you’ll need to take a bit more care. Set up an awesome profile and pay attention to others’ profiles. Be mindful of religious beliefs, hobbies, interests and the way your match presents him or herself.

To make it easier, why not join one of the specialized dating sites? There are sites to find love whether you’re a senior, a Baptist, a cowgirl, LGBTQ+, or from a certain area of the world. No matter who you are and who you’re looking for in a partner, you can find love on dating sites… without ever leaving your living room!

There are thousands of dating sites on the web
There are millions of people on these sites who are looking for a partner, too
Try to join a specialized dating site to help narrow down the type of matches you’ll get

2. Speed dating events

Speed dating is becoming more and more popular, and for good reason. These little events are a great way to find a partner, and even find love in the long term! They’re fun and sometimes they’re themed, too. For instance, you may participate in a speed dating event for professionals, for people over 40 or for outdoors lovers.

Check your local listings for speed dating events in your area. Let’s assume for a moment that you’re a man seeking a woman. The way these events work is that you’ll have a few minutes – usually about 5 – to spend at a table with each woman who’s participating. You’ll get to know each other just a little bit. If you’re interested, you can exchange contact details right then and there. If you don’t, you can notify the emcee at the end of the event that you’re interested and he will connect you.

Speed dating is great because there’s no pressure, it’s completely safe and everyone there is looking to find partners, too. No more blindly guessing as to whether someone’s single. If they’re there, they are!

Speed dating is a pressure-free way to find a partner
You can attend a themed speed dating event to find love with someone with similar interests
Speed dating is safe, quick and you’ll meet many potential dates

3. The bar

If you like the thrill of the chase, the bar scene may be a good place for you to find love. Yes, some people go to the bar looking for a fling. Others go just to get drunk. But there are people out there who will visit the bar to find a partner. Could you find yours at the local pub?

You’re going to meet all types of people when you go to the bar. There’s the sloppy drunk. There’s the stand-offish. There’s the overly-friendly. There’s the clingy drunk – you know, the more they drink they more they think they’re dating you.

The key to finding love at a bar is to stay sober! Seriously! It’s okay to have a drink or two, but keep your wits about you and be well aware of who you’re talking to. They call it “beer colored glasses” – sometimes someone who’s not a match at all will look quite appealing when you’re tipsy.

The bar may not be your first choice to find a partner, but you certainly can do so. Just for one night, why not try it out?

You’re going to find all types of different people at a bar
The key to finding love at the bar is to stay sober
Pay attention to the type of people you’re talking to – some may only be looking for a one night stand

4. Your church or religious group

It’s possible that you can find a partner – even find love – right where you’ve been all along. The great thing about finding love within your religious organization is that you already know you share similar values. Whether you’re Mormon, Christian, Buddhist or whatever, you can find love right at home within your religious group.

Don’t be pushy when you look to find a partner at your religious group. That’s a great way to become the Outcast of the Cathedral. Instead, take it slow and easy. Attend events like the softball game and the fellowship dinner. Socialize after the service or ceremony and get to know people better.

We’re not saying you should fully immerse yourself in your religious group just to find a partner. But being present and active will certainly go a long way toward helping you find love.

Your partner may be someone from your religious group you’ve known for years
When you find love at your place of worship, you know you share the same values
Don’t be pushy. Instead, get involved with group activities and make yourself known

5. Find “the girl next door”

In the same way that your religious organization may be hosting the love of your life, so might your own neighborhood. You never know – there may be a very local guy or girl who’s the perfect match for you. Heck, this person could live two doors down!

Make yourself seen out and about in your neighborhood. Or, you could be even more proactive than that. You could introduce yourself to each of your neighbors, even if you’ve lived there for years. Simply knock and say, “Hi! It’s been a long time coming, but I wanted to introduce myself! I’m Mike!”

Bear in mind that you’re going to meet some people you’re just not interested in – but that’s okay! They’re still your neighbors! Get out there and say hi – you never know who you’ll meet on your very own street.

Many people don’t know the people who live in their own neighborhood
You can find a partner right next door!
Be proactive – make yourself seen and known, and introduce yourself if necessary

6. Volunteer with a non-profit

In a similar way to your religious group, you can find people who share common interests at charity events. If there’s a cause you’re enthusiastic about, you can volunteer to help and find love in the meantime. Plus, volunteering is good for you.

For instance, you can sign up to help clean your community’s waterways, removing plastic bottles and trash from the creeks. You could show up at a dog show that benefits your local animal rights group. Or you could simply volunteer with the community theater, giving a hand to those poor, broke actors. Any way you look at it, you’re sure to find a partner with interests that are similar to yours.

Bear one thing in mind – some people are volunteering because, OOPS!, they were sentenced to do community service. Obviously, you’ll want to make that judgment call as to whether you want to become involved with those folks or not. You can generally get a pretty good idea of why someone is volunteering simply by talking to them.

A good way to find a partner who shares your values is through volunteer work
There are oodles of options available to you – just choose a cause and volunteer
Be mindful of people who may be volunteering as a part of a sentence for a crime

7. Join a Meetup group

Meetup is an international group that connects people with similar interests. There are Meetups for all sorts of hobbies. Go to the website, you’ll see! There are hiking Meetups, Dungeons and Dragons Meetups, knitting Meetups and photography Meetups. Pretty much if you name it, there’s a Meetup for that. If not, it’s easy and fast to create one!

You can find love with groups like Meetup. Bear in mind that these are not dating groups (though there are certainly singles Meetups) so you won’t want to be pushy as you look to find a partner. But the chances are good that by joining a group like this you’ll find someone you can connect with – this person could very well be the love of your life!

There are Meetup groups for many different interests, internationally
Meetups aren’t dating groups (unless they are) so don’t be pushy
People who go to Meetups with you share your interests, so you’ll have something in common

8. At the gym

Don’t be the person who gives other gym-goers a weird stare down while they’re using the leg press. That said, you can find a partner, even find love at the health club you belong to.

While you’re working out, just work out. Don’t be creepy and follow someone around. But do feel free to introduce yourself to someone you find interesting. You can simply state your name and say hi, or you can be sneaky about it. Ask them for the best way to use the kettlebells or for their recommendation on the best shake at the smoothie counter.

Again, it’s important that you’re not overbearing because that’s just creepy. But the health club is a great way to find a partner – at the very worst you may find a new workout buddy!

You can find love at your gym or health club
Don’t be creepy – just let the person work out in peace
But don’t be afraid to introduce yourself or even ask for advice to get the conversation started

9. Find a study buddy

In the same way that you can find love with a workout buddy, you can also find love with a study buddy. Is there a class you’re particularly good at? Really just bad at? Use this to your advantage.

Pay attention to your classmates. If you see someone struggling in a subject you’re good at, offer to study with him or her. Conversely, if you see someone excelling in a subject you’re awful at, ask for tutoring help.

You can find a partner in school when you pair up with someone who you can study with. Even if it doesn’t turn into the next Great Romance, you’ll still learn something, or teach someone else! As with any other method of finding a partner, don’t be creepy about it. If the answer is no, accept it and move on. She or he may not be as interested in you as you are in them.

Your classes are great opportunities to find love
Whether you’re good or bad at a subject, you can find a partner when you team up to study together
Don’t be pushy – no means no – move on if the person declines your offer to study together

10. Join a team sport

If you’re a woman seeking a woman or a man seeking a man, this one’s easy peasy. You can join a team sport like soccer, softball or even golf to find love. If you’re a man or woman looking to find a partner of the opposite sex, you’ll obviously have to join a co-ed team.

That said, you can definitely find love by joining a sports league! There are plenty of groups out there that don’t care how good or bad you are at a sport – you just need to want to play. Many leagues will travel, too, so you’ll have extra experiences to share with your new potential partner.

We’ll say it just one more time for good measure – Don’t. Be. Creepy. There’s a chance that person is just there to play the sport, so don’t be obnoxious. But if you find that you connect with someone, go ahead and connect!

Team sports are a great way to meet someone and find love
If you’re seeking the opposite gender you’ll obviously have to go co-ed
Don’t be pushy, but enjoy the structure – and travel – of your sports league

11. The library

You can find love in the library! All you have to do is bring your laptop and a cup of coffee, and sit down. See someone you’re interested in? Go say hi! Chat him up about the books he’s looking at, or recommend a similar one that you loved.

The key to finding a partner in the library is that you have to know what you’re talking about. It’s not easy to “fake it ‘til you make it” with respect to books – either you’ve read it or you haven’t. that said, there’s nothing wrong with asking someone about a book if you haven’t read it.

Books are a great way for people to find common ground, no matter who they are. Strike up a conversation with someone at the library and you may just meet the love of your life.

You can find love at your local library
Feel free to strike up a conversation about books you love, or ask about others
Be sure you know what you’re talking about – No, Stephen King isn’t a film director

12. The bookstore

An even better alternative to the library is your local book store. Used bookstores have a cozy, conversational feel, but new bookstores are just fine, too. As you and that interesting someone are browsing the history section, just start talking! “What’s your favorite historical period?” “Have you read any good books on WWII lately?”

You get the idea. Find one thing you have in common and you can find love or find a partner in your community’s bookstore.

If you can, try to go to the book signings, too, but be sure you’ve read the book! If your favorite author is in town for a signing, stand in line to have your copy autographed. Then be sure to chat with he people in line around you – after all, it’s a long wait, and these are people you share interests with.

Used and new bookstores are great opportunities to find a partner
You may have to start the conversation yourself
Book signings are another good opportunity to meet people and find love

13. At the coffee shop

Coffee shops are absolutely one of the best places to find a partner and find love. This is especially true of the little local ones, as opposed to the big chains. People become regulars at smaller coffee shops, so you’re almost certain to see the same people at these joint time after time.

People who go to coffee shops and stay generally do so for social reasons, whereas people who pick up a drink from a large chain have better things to do. Make yourself known around your local mom and pop coffee shop, and meet new people each time you visit!

Once you’re a regular, you’ll garner a reputation. People will approach you, even! When you find someone interesting, save him or her a spot at your regular table and let the matchmaking begin!

You can find a partner at a coffee shop – even if the other person’s not looking!
Establish yourself as a regular at your local coffee shop and be friendly
Be approachable – don’t sit in the corner with a book or your laptop

14. At open mic night

If you can’t find the time to be a regular at a coffee shop, you can always find love or find a partner at open mic night. Open mic night usually consists of poetry, so if you’re going to be tempted to laugh at others’ attempts, this might not be for you.

When you go to open mic night you don’t have to share. There’s no requirement at all. The only requirement is that you sit with open ears and an open mind, and usually that you buy a cup of coffee (or a drink, if it’s at a bar).

The rest is up to you. Saw someone who just recited a poem about her horrible ex? Go up to her afterward and tell her how much you loved it. You get the picture. The best part of open mic night is that you can often learn a lot about a person by what they bring to the mic – without having to introduce yourself at all!

You’re not required to speak on open mic night
If you’re going to giggle at others’ poetry, skip open mic night
See someone interesting? Use their recitation as a conversation starter

15. Using a ride share service

There’s a fine line with this one, but it’s possible to find love or find a partner using a ride share service. That said, this only applies if you’re a passenger. If you’re a driver who’s trying to “pick up” his rides, you’ll get oodles of complaints and probably end up losing your gig.

Okay, so you need to get from point A to point B. Call a ride share! Did you get picked up by a hottie? Start chatting them up. Some of the best conversations start in the car to fill the awkward silence. You can turn that silence into a budding romance.

Ride share romance is another instance where you don’t want to be creepy. With that said, though, usually ride share drivers are single – they work late hours and unpredictable schedules… something no spouse would put up with, for sure!

You can find love when you use a ride share service
If you’re a driver, this isn’t a good option as you may lose your job
As a passenger, you have all the freedom in the world, but don’t be pushy about it

16. Join an improv group

All around the world, there are groups called improv groups. Basically these are acting classes that lead absolutely nowhere. You’ll go in and work with an “expert,” (usually someone who didn’t quite make it as an actor) and explore different ways to express yourself. There’s no real point to these classes, though they can be kind of therapeutic when you go through the “expressing your anger” portion.

Anyway, you can join one of these classes! The people who join with you aren’t always looking to find love but, like open mic events, you can learn a lot about a person in an improv class.

You’re not going to become the next Meryl Streep by joining a local improv group, but you can certainly make strides toward finding a partner. Search today and see what’s in your area. Who knows who may be acting alongside you?

All sorts of types of people join improv groups
You’re not going to become famous by joining one, but you fan find love
You can learn a lot about a potential partner in an improv group

17. At networking events

It’s never really a great idea to start an office romance. After all, if things go sour you’re going to be stuck with some pretty darn awkward situations at work. Plus, these things might not even be allowed – the last thing you want is for Human Resources to start giving you trouble just because of who you’re dating.

But there’s nothing wrong with dating someone in the same industry as you. Go to a networking event or something similar like a conference, and see who shows up. These people will obviously have common ground with you, as they do the same thing you do for a living.

Be sure you’re not overbearing, as you don’t want to intimidate your prospective partner. But don’t be scared to say hi to someone you find interesting, or to trade industry notes with that person who’s caught your eye. You can find love at networking events, and can find a partner with similar career goals.

Inter-office romances are generally not a good idea
That said, you can find love at networking events with people in your industry
You’ll share career goals and common knowledge with a date you meet at industry events

18. By hosting your own event

If you’re on social media or know a lot of people who can spread word about an event, you can create your own! Ask your friends to invite the single folks they know to a party, event or just to hang out. It’s a good idea to make the event pot luck and/or BYOB, as you never know how many people will show up. If you have unlimited resources, though, feel free to foot the bill.

Some ideas for singles’ events you can host are:

Dog day in the park (everyone brings their pup along to play)
White elephant holiday party (everyone brings a small gift to exchange)
Book trading party (you guessed it – bring a book to share)
Movies on the lawn (rent a projector and play a movie in your back yard)
Community cleanup (volunteer to pick up trash along a street or highway)

You get it – the sky’s the limit! Just be sure you keep budget and venue in mind when you plan your event. Have fun!

19. On social media

There are tons and tons of ways you can find love on social media. You can join a Facebook group that’s dedicated to one interest or another. You can introduce yourself to friends of friends. You can follow people on Twitter and exchange (intelligent) conversation with them.

The key is to use social media as nature intended – socially! Reach out and say hi – you never know when you’ll find a partner just by “liking” someone’s post.

Consider joining a Facebook or other social media group to find love
Use social media socially and you can find a partner
There are tons of ways to meet people on social media if you put yourself out there

20. At the music festival

There a fewer ways to find love that are more fun than attending music festivals. Just think about it! Music! Dancing! Camping! Beer! If this sounds like your “jam,” (pun intended) then buy tickets to the next music festival today!

The people you meet at the music festival will fall into categories. There are going to be the day trippers who are local and just want the experience. There are the fan boys who just came to see the live performance by Elephant Revival. There are the hipsters – you’ll know them because they’re high or drunk. And then there are the people who are just there to have fun and experience the music.

You choose which group appeals to you most, and find someone who interests you. Who knows, by the time the festival is wrapping up you could be sharing a tent with someone interesting!

Music festivals are fun ways to find love
People who attend music festivals belong in categories, but you’ll know them when you see them
Have fun, dance, and find love at your local music festival – your partner might be waiting!

21. Create your own singles group

This idea is a cross between Meetup and hosting your own singles event. If there are no singles groups in your area, what’s to stop you from creating your own? It can pretty much all be done online, initially, and you get to set the rules.

Starting a singles group is easy – the simplest way to do it is through social media. For example, you can set up a Meetup or a Facebook page that’s specifically meant for locals who are looking to find love. Be descriptive in your explanation of the group. For example, is this for the LGBTQ+ community only? For single parents?

Invite people to your group that you know are single, and ask them to spread the word. Creating your own singles group is a great way to be proactive as you look to find a partner.

If you don’t have a local singles group you can create your own
Be specific when you create your group description
Have friends and family members spread the word and watch your singles group grow

22. At single parents’ support groups

You don’t necessarily have to be a single parent to join a single parents’ support group, but it sure does help. So, you single parents, this one’s for you.

You can meet a lot of really awesome people and possibly even find love when you join a group for single moms and dads. The people in this group are obviously okay with you having kids – they have them too – and they know the struggles you face every day.

That guy over there across from you has to be Mom and Dad every day, too. That woman balances work and home life with the kids somehow, too. You get it – these people are your allies, so why not introduce yourself and see where the conversation goes?

Single parenting groups are a great way to meet a partner and find love
Other single parents share and understand your struggles
Even if you don’t find a partner, you’ll make some great friends at these groups

23. In the department store

“Excuse me, can you help me? Which tie should I choose for my brother?”

That simple question can help you find love in a place as mundane as the mall downtown. Why not try going shopping in the opposite sex’s section of the department store? You can easily strike up a conversation and learn a bit about your prospective mate, too.

The key, of course, is to make it clear that you’re not shopping for a spouse or partner. Make it innocuous and tell them it’s your cousin, your dad or your brother. Men, you’re shopping for your mom or your sis, of course.

Then, if the conversation goes well why not follow up with an invite to get coffee at the shop down the hall? You can find a partner simply by shopping for clothes in the “wrong” department!

Try shopping in the opposite gender’s department to find love
Introduce yourself and ask for shopping advice
Be clear that you’re shopping for a family member, not a significant other

24. The laundromat

There’s little more boring than literally watching your clothes dry at the laundromat. But the next time you’re forced to wash your towels, why not put the book down and strike up a conversation instead? You can meet some really interesting people – and possibly even find love – just by doing this mundane chore that most people hate.

Again, put the book down. When you have your nose in a magazine or novel you look unapproachable and unfriendly. Instead, chat with fellow laundry-doers about how hot it is in the building, or the dumb television show that’s playing on the monitor.

You’ll have at least 30 minutes or so to talk… and that’s just while the clothes are in the wash. Switch them out and BAM! You’ve got a guaranteed 30 minutes more to chat up your prospective partner.

It may seem unusual, but you can find love at the laundromat
Put the book down and make yourself approachable
Even if you don’t find the love of your life, talking to others certainly makes trips to the laundromat more fun and interesting

25. On vacation

If you’re traveling to faraway destinations, you’re more likely to find a fling than to find love or find a partner. But there is a way to do it: go on a singles outing that originates in your local area.

Many localities around the world host these trips. You’ll travel either locally (within you home country) or internationally, and you’ll have the opportunity to meet a lot of people who are single and, like you, are looking to find love.

Do a Google search for groups like this in your area. These trips can be fun, adventurous, educational or romantic – you choose! Best of all, you know the people you’re travelling with are relatively local to you, so when you get back home it’ll be easy to continue the relationship that began in a faraway place!

Many localities host singles vacations that are meant only for people looking for a partner
There are many types of trips, ranging from educational to romantic
If you choose a local travel group, it’ll be easy to continue the relationship when you get home

26. Go to a dance

No matter where you live, there’s likely an event in your area that’s meant just for dancing. You could go folk dancing, ballroom dancing, line dancing or pretty much any other type of dancing and find love in the process.

Group dances are fun – just be sure not to bring a date! You’ll switch partners frequently and meet a lot of new people… and potentially find a partner! Even if you don’t know how to dance, that’s okay. Chances are none of these other people do, too, and you can all learn together.

Put on your dancing shoes and hit the floor – find a dance partner who could end up to be the partner you’re looking for!

Community dances are common, and are often free or low cost to attend
There are all sorts of dances, from ballroom to folk
Don’t worry about your dance skills – just worry about finding a partner to dance with!

27. At the grocery store

Need help choosing the best avocado? Don’t know when that watermelon is ripe? Just ask that hot guy over there who’s also checking out the produce.

Are there 30 people checking out and only two lanes open? Make the best of the situation and begin chatting with the people around you. You could find love or find a partner in a place as simple as the grocery store.

The grocery store doesn’t have to be just about picking up cheese and ground beef for supper. Instead, you can be social and introduce yourself to the people around you. You never know who you might meet, or who’s “checking out” more than just groceries.

Approach others at the grocery store and start a conversation
Long lines are especially good for meeting people at the grocery
Grocery shopping doesn’t have to be just about picking up cheese and bread – you can “pick up” a partner, too

28. Public transportation

Whether you take a trolley, a bus, a subway or an elevated train, you can find love on public transportation. Chances are you’ve noticed her – that girl who seems to have the same daily commute schedule as you do. Either you’ll be sitting at the bus stop together or on the train headed in the same direction. What’s the harm in saying hello?

It’s important not to be overbearing and creepy when you introduce yourself. After all, you’re literally going to have to see this person every day – don’t make it awkward. Do be original. Is she always reading a book? Gift her with one of your favorites to start a conversation. Do something that’ll make you stand out from the rest of the commuters and she’ll be sure to remember you.

If you take public transportation, you’re probably going to run into the same people day after day
Introduce yourself, but don’t be overbearing – that causes awkwardness
You can find love and find a partner on transportation if you do something to make yourself stand out

29. In restaurants

Perhaps a step up from finding love in a bar is when you find love in a restaurant. Have you ever been to a restaurant and seen someone sitting alone? There’s absolutely no harm in asking to join them!

Now, this works better in low-key restaurants like the late night diners than it does in the fancier ones. The reason for that is simple – some people just like to eat alone. They’ll curl up in a booth with a book and munch on a burger and fries as a way to unwind and relax.

In diners and similar joints, though, people are often eating alone from necessity. You can introduce yourself and ask them to join you. Be prepared for a no, though, as solo dining is sometimes a personal preference.

You can introduce yourself to find a partner in someone eating alone
Keep in mind that sometimes people choose to dine solo
You’ll have better luck finding love in a diner than in an upscale restaurant

30. At parties

Is your friend hosting a party this weekend? Go! You could find love or find a partner at your friend’s party just by being there.

Keep in mind that many people at parties will be coupled up. Don’t let that discourage you. Instead, go seek out that cute guy and ask if you can get him a drink. Chat him up and you never know – you may have a lot in common with this person!

One thing to consider is how your prospective partner is associated with your friend. If things go pear shaped, you don’t want to make things awkward with your friend, so be sure to be respectful.

Your friend’s friends can help you find love
Go to the parties that you’re invited to and introduce yourself!
Don’t make things awkward with your friends – always be respectful in case things don’t work out

31. At weddings

Along the same lines as parties are weddings. You can absolutely find love at weddings, and you may end up hosting a wedding of your own! People who go to weddings are usually quite sentimental. You can take advantage of this, simply by introducing yourself to people around you.

Better yet, get to know the people who are sitting at your table. If you must bring a “plus one,” be sure he or she is not going to demand your attention the whole time. In fact, it can work out for both of you if you agree to be each others’ wingman during the reception.

The key to finding a partner at a wedding is simple: sobriety. Lots of times, people get stupid drunk at weddings. Don’t be that person. Stay sober, keep your cool and hit the dance floor to meet a partner and find love at your best friend’s wedding.

Weddings are a great venue to meet people
You may even find love sitting right next to you during the reception
If you like, bring a friend and act as each others’ wingmen

32. Go to work’s happy hour

Think back to all those times your work buddies have asked you to join them for a drink after hours. Next time, say yes! Better yet, why not suggest it yourself – ask a few coworkers if they’d like to head to the bar down the road. If you like, you can also ask that person you’ve got a crush on. Because you’re going in a group, it’s not at all threatening.

Once there, pay attention to your work mates, of course. But be sure not to limit your options. Workplace relationships can be tricky at best, so if you see someone who catches your eye that’s not from your firm, go say hi!

You can find love alongside co-workers at happy hour
You can invite that guy or girl from the office you’ve had a crush on, as it’s a non-threatening group
Be sure to look beyond your work group for anyone else who seems interesting

33. Get (or borrow) a dog

You can meet lots of exciting people and potentially find love simply by taking your dog for a walk or to the dog park. Don’t have a dog? No problem. You can borrow one, either from a friend or from the local animal shelter.

Once your dog is procured, head out and make some new friends. Your friends may be of the pup variety or the human kind. Either way, you can find love!

Be sure to introduce yourself to others at the dog park. After all, they’re dog lovers too so you’ve got something in common already. It’s quite possible to find a partner simply by taking your dog for a walk. Better yet, follow a similar route every morning so that you can “run into” the same pups each day.

You can find love by walking your dog to meet other dog lovers
If you don’t have a dog, you can walk your friend’s or borrow one from the shelter
Whether or not you find a human partner, you’re still improving your relationship with your dog!

34. Take an adult education class

Community colleges and other community centers offer classes for adults that range from woodworking to pottery. If there’s something you’re genuinely interested in learning, go ahead and sign up. You can find love when you attend a course – and you’ll find a partner with interests similar to your own!

Classes are generally pretty inexpensive – sometimes they’re even free! You can choose a cooking class, a painting class – anything you like. The key is to introduce yourself and get to know your classmates. Then, if you like, invite your painting partner to the art museum, or your baking partner to the pastry shop down the road.

You can find a partner with similar interests by taking an adult education course
Courses like this are inexpensive – or even free
You can use the subject of the course to transition into a date with your new partner

35. At the pool

Is there a community pool in your area? Chances are there is – and sometimes there’s no membership fee. Even if it’s not free to use the pool a membership might be worth it, because the pool is a great place to find love.

Think about it. It’s summer. It’s hot. You’re looking for a place to cool off every night after work. Well, you can find a partner who’s trying to do the same! You get to show off your swimsuit and meet new people, all while getting a bit of exercise and meeting new people!

A community pool membership is a great way to find love
You’ll likely run into the same people very frequently, which will give you plenty of opportunity to chat
Even if you have to pay, joining the community pool is well worth it

36. At karaoke

Are you a really good singer? Are you a really bad singer? Either way, you can find love at karaoke! Karaoke doesn’t have to be at a bar. Community centers and even restaurants host these events all the time. Just go, order your wings, and sign up to sing. Make a splash and people will remember you – and approach you!

You can find love at karaoke even if you don’t sing. Just go and observe and then introduce yourself to that crooner who caught your eye. He or she doesn’t have to be a good singer! Remember, this is karaoke, not a talent contest!

Just go, grab a beer and have fun and you definitely can find a partner at karaoke!

You can find love by singing on karaoke night
You don’t have to be a good singer – in fact, you don’t even have to sing!
Just get out there and introduce yourself and you can find a partner at karaoke

37. Anywhere that’s not normal for you

If you and your friends go to Sam’s Bar every Saturday night, you’re probably seeing the same people over and over again. Change that. You’re not going to find love in places that are stale, and if you didn’t find a partner last Saturday, you’re probably not going to this weekend, either.

Instead of Sam’s, go to Lou’s this weekend. Better yet, don’t go to a bar at all and instead go mountain climbing or to the go kart track. You’ll find love in places you’ve never been before, so don’t be afraid to switch it up a little from time to time!

Don’t keep going to the same places over and over again, expecting to find love
You can find a partner in unexpected places, so branch out
Consider going out with different friends every now and then, too!

38. Through your friends

You can put the word out: you’re looking to find love. You want a partner and you want your friends’ help. So let them know that you’re available and ready to meet other singles they know.

Just as you should use caution when going to friends’ parties, you should be kind and respectful when meeting your friends’ friends, too. You don’t want things to get awkward within your social circle, so be smart about it. That said, your friends can be some of the best matchmakers to help you find love.

Your friends know you well, so trust them to help you find love
Don’t make your social circle awkward – always be gentle and respectful if things don’t work out
Put the word out with all your friends that you’re looking for a partner, not just a fling

39. At a hardware store

This one’s both for the men and the ladies who are looking to find love. But you’ll use the hardware store as your venue in different ways.

Women: there’s not a guy on this planet who doesn’t like to show off his man card. So the next time you’re at the hardware store, be sure to ask for his advice – do you need the #8 screw or the #10 screw – even if you already darn well know the answer.

Men: there’s not a woman on this planet who wants to be mansplained to. So instead of telling her she needs a #10 screw instead of the #8 she’s holding, just shut your mouth. Then, when you’re ready to open it, ask her about the project she’s working on. Better yet, ask her for advice.

Hardware stores are a great way to find a partner! What’s even better than finding a date at a hardware store is finding someone to work on that bookshelf with! So go to the hardware store and start chatting up your fellow customers.

Men and women should approach finding love at a hardware store differently
Don’t be afraid to talk to each other about the projects you’re working on
Women, let men show off their knowledge. Men, don’t assume women know nothing about what they’re doing.

40. University student activities

If you’re in college, there’s really no better place to find love or find a partner than at student activities. And these activities are seemingly endless in scope. You can join a Greek group, a religious group or a social group. You can go to lectures or join a study group. In college, it’s all fair game!

Of course, if you’re not in college you may be able to participate in campus activities anyway. Universities are always hosting movies on the green, music recitals and lectures that are free for the public to join.

The key to finding a match at university student activities is simple: don’t keep to yourself! Get out there and chat with others about the event, and let yourself be seen!

University students have oodles of options for meeting people at campus events
Sometimes non-students are invited to attend these events as well
It’s important to be social when you attend these events – don’t be shy and keep to yourself!

41. By doing things “out” that you’d usually do at home

You can do the things you’d normally do at home while you’re out and about. For instance, if you want to surf the web, why not find a local free hot spot, bring your laptop and surf there? Fast food restaurants and coffee shops are good examples of places that offer WiFi – all you’ll have to do is buy a drink or a coffee.

On the subject of fast food, why order takeout when you can dine in? Next time you order a chicken sandwich from that fast food chain, skip asking for it “to go.” Instead, sit down at one of the tables and enjoy having the company of people around you. You never know – you could find love over a box of fries or find a partner over a burger.

The point is, you need to get out of the house in order to meet someone. Go for a walk downtown instead of on your private street. You get the idea. See and be seen and you’ll meet your future mate in no time.

You can find a partner by doing things you’re already doing
All you need to do is not do them at home!
Be approachable, and be seen – introduce yourself and you might find your future partner doing what you do anyway

42. Pretty much anywhere that allows speaking

It’s true – you can find love anywhere you’re allowed to say “hi.” And we can’t think of too many places where this isn’t an option, can you?

All you have to do is get off the couch (unless you’re on a dating site), go outside and start talking to people. It’s amazing what the world looks like away from that little blue screen you keep staring at – it’s kinda pretty up here! Come see!

Say hello to strangers on the street. Talk to people who are standing in line with you. The simple act of being friendly can help you find love – even if you find a partner who didn’t know they were looking! Just get out there and chat – you’ll find a partner before you know it.

Conclusion

You can find love from your living room, in a bar or in some unconventional places. The important thing is that you pay attention to the world around you and that you introduce yourself! Strike up a conversation, whether you’re at a concert or at the library. After all, you never know where those conversations will lead!