9 Simple Ways to Attract a Man With Precision
9 Simple Ways to Attract a Man With Precision
Are you eyeing a man who you think is beyond reach?
Do you want a consistent and a reciprocated feeling of attraction?
Do you desire the attraction to grow into something special?
For you to succeed in attracting the man you are interested in, it is crucial to know that, men look for different qualities in women. For example, while men are perceived to be visually stimulated, and tend to lean towards physical appearance, they also look into aspects like emotions, intellect and sometimes may even consider among others aspects, spirituality.
If you thought your dream guy is out of reach since you have no idea what and how to attract a man with precision, then read through and let me show you how to:
- Attract that guy and make him see you as the girl he would want to spend the rest of his life with.
Below are 9 simple and practical way to attract a man with precision and make him want you:
1. Have the Best Mindset
If you want to send a good ‘vibe’ to a man, then you must have one internally. Why do I say internally? You give what you have. Your internal mental state dictates how you react to situations and what you give off externally. Therefore, having a healthy mental state will help you spread a healthy ‘vibe.’ For example, people will notice your mood even when you try very much to hide it.
- Discovering yourself, your strengths, and weaknesses also help you to work on what you are good at naturally. Additionally, you will be able to improve your self-confidence and feel more comfortable around men. Always keep building on the qualities which you think need improvement. Remember that no one is perfect, just keep evolving positively.
- It is also important to associate yourself with people who bring out the best in you and make you feel good about yourself and loved.
- It does you no good to compare yourself to anyone; be yourself and build your own identity. Most importantly, be positive and know that you are the best there is and you will attract a man who likes who you are, not a fake you!
2. Look Your Best Physically
Do you know that every time you meet someone, especially for the first time an impression of you that is hard to erase is formed? Physical attraction, though it is not all that matters to a man, is key to sending a spark of charm to any man. Visual and facial impressions when you meet a man will, therefore, determine if he will acknowledge or ignore your presence. To get that guy you so wish to attract to pay attention to you and keep his eyes glued to you, you should, dress elegantly and groom yourself to your best.
- Always choose clothes that are relevant to the occasion in which you intend to attract a man with precision. Your clothes should also put considerable emphasis on the most attractive features of your body, of course without compromising your comfort. You can be sure that your attractive features will attract a man’s eyes effortlessly.
- You do not want to look like you are trying so hard, or get confused for a Christmas tree, therefore, wear your make up in moderation.
- Your hair too should be styled in a way that suits your intentions. For example, if you want to expose your beautiful face qualities, then pushing your hair away from your face will be the best thing to do.
- Exercise, diet, staying clean and wearing good scented colognes can also make a man get attracted to you since you are not too lazy to take care of yourself.
3. Work Magic with your Body Language
If you want a man to notice and pay attention, give him a reason. Lead him using your body language, so he will know you are interested. You can explore and implement these body language signals; they will work wonders for you;
- You want to be approachable, right? Smile and do it genuinely. A smile makes you look confident, caring, attractive and friendly. Hence, a smile is sure bet way to disarm a man of his fear to approach you and even want to hang around you more.
- If you meet a man you are interested in, the first thing you do is to look at them and maybe look away. If they respond to your glance, then something, (though not in all scenarios), might happen soon after. Eye contact also works miracles during conversations. Make sure you maintain eye contact to show that you like the man and also show him that you are paying attention and are interested in what he is saying.
- It is okay to flirt, naturally. Sit close to the man with your body turned to him anytime he attempts to get close to you. Do this with caution so as not to exaggerate or be too obvious.
4. Be Vulnerable
Showing your vulnerability may sound a little absurd, but in the real sense, it is a man’s aphrodisiac. Although there are some exceptions as to how a man views a controlling woman, many are the times when any thoughts or fears of dominating and controlling a man will almost instantly put him off. Hence, your vulnerability will attract his masculine strength, giving him a chance to want to stay close to you and protect you. At this point, you will realize that he likes you already!
- Save the strong girl attitude for the office and those board room meetings. Let your man know you are vulnerable and need his protection. It’s a boost to his ego.
5. Have a good sense of Humor
Have you ever imagined how annoying it would be to hang around a man who is always wearing a serious face? It’s certainly an attraction killer, and men do not like it either. If you want your type of guy to bond with you, loosen up and make him feel comfortable and at ease when he interacts with you. Share funny stories, experiences about yourself or encounters. Avoid telling stories that bring sadness or seem to attract sympathy. Remember your targeted man is not your problem solver but a companion who also wants to be happy around you. Anything that keeps his longing to meet you will work to your advantage, so keep him yearning for your company.
- Be interesting to talk to. Laugh at his jokes and share some jokes with him. Don’t be too shy to talk. No man loves going out with a dumb lady. Make you moments together as memorable for both of you as much as you can.
6. Hang out with Him
Men get easily attracted to women who love what they do, or better still, those who can go out of their way to support what they do. If your guy buys you a ticket to a football match, accompany him and cheer his team. He will love it! You will be amazed at how he will appreciate this gesture and keep asking you out more often. He might also surprise you by asking to accompany you to places that you love too! Men need attention and submissiveness. Give him just that, and you will enjoy the magic results it brings.
- Take a keen interest in what he loves and support him. It makes it easy for him to trust you and start viewing you differently.
7. Be independent
Independent women are attractive and hard to resist. Any man would want to have such a woman by his side. Men love attention, but be careful because you don’t want to appear too clingy. If you want to attract a man with precision, avoid behaviors that might make him think you want to suffocate him.
- Be flexible, give him time to recharge, refocus or even have time with his fellow males. While you give the man his space, let him also wonder where you are, who you are with, and what you are doing.
- Keep yourself busy with your friends or things that you love doing and let him feel your absence. Most assuredly he will crave your presence. In this case, the good news is that he is already getting attracted to you! Always remember that men love their independence and so should you.
8. Treat Others Courteously
Among the first things, a man looks out for in a woman apart from the physical aspect is personality. Your inner beauty and values are essential for a man to decide if he wants to be around you or not. For example, how do you treat others? Come to think of it, if you are rude to others, will the man you want to pay attention to you be an exception? When you selflessly treat others, a man assumes that you will handle him the same way. Isn’t it is amazing how ‘little’ gestures can impact people’s emotions towards you? He will certainly like you for your courteous behavior.
9. Play hard to get
The last thing you want from a man is for him to have an impression that you are desperate or needy. Give him the challenge and thrill to chase you. Nobody wants easy things. Say no if necessary. Communicate your deal breakers and let him know that you are not a pushover. He will want more of you if you keep him guessing. But again, do not stretch the game too far as it may make you unattractive.
The next time you find yourself clouded with questions on ways to attract a man with precision, try any, or all of the methods we have discussed and rest assured that you will undoubtedly grab his attention!
It’s that simple so don’t stress!